hard words or too hard to hear?

Do you think that there are some things that you need to hear not matter how hard it is to hear them?
Do you think that hearing the hard things motivate you or do you think they just knock you down too much?
when they come from loved ones, you know they are coming from a place of love and support but does that make them hurt less?

I love my family, ALOT! they are my biggest fans and supporters and i would be totally and utterly lost without each and everyone of them.... And for the most part i really value their hoesty, more than i would value my friends....

i dont know what i am trying to say here, i guess things become a reality when you hear the thoughts you have been thinking inside your head spoken out loud, from someone else... Does this even make sense?

i feel like I am talking dribble and talking in circles, I guess what i am getting at is does it make it easier or harder to hear the truth?

For me i am sure that it has been a big motivater, not that the things i have heard have been easy to hear, but when you finally realise that people have noticed how big you have gotten and are agreeing with you when you say how much weight you want to lose, or even that you are overweight and need to lose weight, it makes it a reality. Well for me, it made it a reality and really lit that fire under me to finally commit to doing something about it.

Just want to make them proud x